What Is Dialectical Behavior Therapy?
Dialectical behavior therapy, or DBT, is a structured kind of talk therapy. It was developed in the late 1980s by Dr. Marsha Linehan. The word “dialectical” speaks to the balance essential to this approach. DBT helps people accept themselves and their circumstances as they are, while also building new skills to change patterns that cause pain. It was first created for people facing intense emotions and continuous struggles with thoughts of self-harm. Since its development, researchers have studied DBT across several mental health and behavioral health concerns.
Two ideas are at the heart of DBT. “Wise mind” is about finding a steady middle ground between emotion and logic, so you can respond to life instead of just reacting. “Radical acceptance” means seeing things as they truly are, even if you don’t like them, while still holding hope for change. These concepts are practiced through DBT exercises and skills that help bring acceptance and change into situations you encounter in daily life.
The Four Core Skills DBT Builds
DBT is organized around four skill modules, each covering a different part of how someone manages their inner life and their relationships. These are the skills themselves, distinct from the settings where someone learns and practices them, which is covered in the next section. Together, they give a person practical tools to use in the middle of a hard moment, not just ideas to think about afterward.
Mindfulness
Mindfulness in DBT is about noticing what’s happening inside and around you, without rushing to react. It’s the foundation for the other skills. Practicing mindfulness helps you catch feelings early and choose how to respond rather than react on autopilot.
Distress Tolerance
Distress tolerance skills help you get through a crisis or tough moment without making things harder. This could mean using a grounding technique, taking a brief break, or waiting out a strong urge. These are short-term tools for situations that can’t be changed or solved right away, giving you time to respond without making the situation more difficult.
Emotion Regulation
Emotion regulation skills help you understand what you’re feeling and why. Over time, these skills can make emotions feel less intense and less frequent. You’ll learn to spot what’s driving your feelings and build habits, like steady sleep or less time around stress, that help keep things more balanced.
Interpersonal Effectiveness
Interpersonal effectiveness skills help you ask for what you need, say no when you need to, and handle conflict while keeping your self-respect. If relationships have felt unstable or you’ve commonly felt dismissed or overwhelmed, these skills offer a way to speak up clearly and still honor your own needs.

How DBT Sessions Work
DBT can take place in individual and group settings, with each giving you different opportunities to learn and apply the skills involved. In individual therapy, you can work with a therapist to identify where emotional reactions, distress, or relationship patterns are creating problems and to practice responding differently.
Group sessions can give you another setting to learn and practice skills such as mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness. At Redstone, how DBT becomes part of your treatment depends on your level of care and the areas you’re working on during treatment.
Who DBT Can Help
DBT continues to be used in the treatment of borderline personality disorder, including symptoms involving emotional regulation, relationships, and self-harm. Its use has expanded well beyond that original focus since then. DBT is also used to treat substance use disorders, often because emotional dysregulation and substance use can feed into each other, and difficulty tolerating distress may make it harder to sustain recovery. It’s a common part of treatment for people managing co-occurring disorders, where a mental health condition and a substance use disorder are present at the same time. When both are part of what someone is experiencing, treatment can account for symptoms and challenges related to each.
DBT is commonly used to help with:
- Borderline personality disorder
- Substance use disorders and co-occurring mental health conditions
- Chronic emotional dysregulation and mood instability
- Self-harm and suicidal thoughts
The reason someone uses DBT can look different from person to person. You may be working on managing intense emotions, getting through difficult moments without falling back on harmful patterns, or communicating more clearly in your relationships. What matters is how those skills connect to the challenges you’re actually dealing with.

DBT as Part of a Comprehensive, Individualized Treatment Plan
DBT is just one part of the care we offer at Redstone. We also use other evidence-based approaches, like cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), EMDR, accelerated resolution therapy, motivational interviewing, 12-step facilitation, and holistic therapy. DBT will not be part of every treatment plan. We consider the symptoms, behaviors, relationships, and other concerns you’re working on when deciding whether DBT or another therapeutic approach may be useful.
We take the same customized approach to level of care. Our partial hospitalization program (PHP) is the most structured, with a full day of support. Intensive outpatient (IOP) offers a lighter schedule but still gives steady help. Standard outpatient (OP) provides ongoing therapy with the most flexibility of our three outpatient levels. DBT therapy in Bowling Green can be part of your treatment across different levels of care, depending on what you’re working on and the support you need. At Redstone, we use DBT alongside other therapies and resources to help you apply these skills to the challenges you’re facing in daily life.